Helping identify the typical "pity me" cons.

• These all require your money and will have urgency.  
• It requires you to have empathy for the suffering of others of guilt

This could be anything from fake illness, hospital bills or travel needs.

This particular con is recognised by:

• Questionning you 
• Pretending to have the same likes / dislikes
• Pretending to be the same as you
• FAST use of loving terms

Requires you to easily give out information and wanting to fall in love quickly

This particular con may result in a sudden change of character and include:

• Blackmail
• Threats
• Intimidation

Typically this has resulted after you leave them or you have given personal information that is used against you.

This can be intoxicating  and believeable, often with claims of:

• Missing you / in love
• Gifts of money
• Praise

Followed by withdrawal leaving victims confused.

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